Ripples of kindness: Help stop bullying

Karen Walstra
7 days ago
3 min read

stand up to bullies - stop online bullying

Bullying. We all know it happens, both in our schools and online. It's not fun, and it can have a serious impact on our learners - young and old.

We can make a difference, we have the power to make a change! We can create a kinder, safer environment for everyone.

It Starts with Us, The Teachers and School Leadership

Remember the old saying, "treat others the way you want to be treated"? It's simple, but it's powerful. And as teachers, we set the example. Think about it:

How do we treat each other? Are we kind and supportive in the staff room? In the corridors? The learners see and hear everything. If we're respectful and positive with each other, they're more likely to follow our example. They do mimic us!
Do we address unkindness? When a snide remark or hurtful comment pops up in the classroom, do we ignore it? Or do we use it as a teachable moment? Let's talk about being kind and respectful.

Navigating the Online World

Online bullying is an enormous concern. It needs to be addressed.

Things to consider:

Learners see a lot online. Research shows that many kids are exposed to hate speech, gory images, and sexual messages online. It's scary, and it can be damaging (UNICEF, 2016)
Online bullying is real. Many children experience hurtful or nasty messages online, on social media, or through messaging apps. It's not just "kids being kids." It's harmful. (UNICEF, 2022)

Our posts matter. What we share online as teachers, sets an example. Let's think twice before sharing or laughing at something that could be embarrassing or hurtful to someone else.
Teach learners about their digital footprints and the impact on them, and on others. Teach them to be kind and brave online and in the real world. Teach them to think before they post!

Being the Change: Actions We Can Take

Set the example. Teach learners to be positive change makers.

Promote the idea that we can all fight bullying and promote kindness:

Be an "upstander." If we see bullying happening, let's step in (when it's safe to do so). Offer support to the person being targeted. A simple "Are you okay?" can make a big difference.
Don't be a bystander. If there's a fight, stop it. Don't film it. If someone falls, help them up. Don't record it. If something hurtful is said in a group chat, speak up.
Report bullying. Most online platforms and schools have reporting systems. Use them! It's important to report bullying so it can be addressed.
Spread positivity online. Share kind messages. Highlight good things. Be a positive voice in the digital world.

As teachers:

Create inclusive spaces. In our classrooms and in our school communities, let's make sure everyone feels valued and respected. Let's challenge exclusion, even the small stuff.
Educate ourselves and others. Learn about the different types of bullying and how they affect people. Talk about it with our learners.
Remember self-care. Dealing with bullying can be tough. Let's take care of ourselves too. Acknowledge our feelings, practice self-care, and be kind to ourselves.

The Ripple Effect of Kindness

Kindness is contagious. When we're kind to ourselves, we can be kinder to others. And when we act with kindness towards those affected by bullying, we not only help them but also create a more positive environment for everyone.

Let's choose to be the ripple of kindness in our schools and in the online world. By working together, we can make a real difference and create a place where every learner feels safe, valued, and respected.

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